National Coming Out Day

Friday, October 8, 2021

October 11 is National Coming Out Day in Canada

Its roots lie in theÌýU.S.ÌýNational Coming Out Day,ÌýestablishedÌýin 1988, which wasÌýtheÌýsecond anniversary of theÌýMarch on Washington for Lesbian and Gay rights. This dayÌýcan serveÌýasÌýaÌýform of activism and a meansÌýto celebrate 2SLGBTQ+ identities, decrease stigma,ÌýincreaseÌýawareness, and advocate for change.ÌýFor some 2SLGBTQ+ folks this day is anÌýopportunityÌýto celebrate their identities publicly.Ìý

Coming out isÌýan expressionÌýthat describesÌýaÌýprocess of socially acknowledging one’s sexual orientation and/or gender identity.ÌýComing outÌýcanÌýprovide spaceÌýand opportunity forÌýsomeÌý2SLGBTQ+ folks to define their identities and lived experiences on their own terms,Ìýwith their own agency.ÌýOn this day, many members of theÌý2SLGBTQ+Ìýcommunity may choose to actively ‘come out’Ìýon social media to a few people in their lives, or just to themselves.ÌýComing out looks and feels differently to each person.Ìý

And weÌýrecognize thatÌýcoming out safely, orÌýevenÌýcoming out in general,Ìýis not always an option for all, nor is it anÌýaction everyone wants to take.ÌýThere is growing acknowledgement that coming out places undue pressureÌýonÌýmembers of the 2SLGBTQ+ community.ÌýMany 2SLGBTQ+ folksÌýwho areÌýalsoÌýBlack, Indigenous,Ìýor are aÌýPerson of ColourÌýnote that the conceptÌýofÌýcoming outÌýhas been a framework that has historically been useful for Western society.ÌýBut the narrowness of the concept and the language used to describe itÌýareÌýnot always reflective of theÌý2SLGBTQ+Ìýcommunity at large.ÌýComingÌýout is not aÌýrequiredÌýprocess for 2SLGBTQ+ folks – queer and transÌýidentities are validÌýregardless of whether others know this about someone or not.ÌýÌý

This National Coming Out Day,Ìýwe celebrateÌýtheÌýdiversity ofÌý2SLGBTQ+ students, faculty, and staff in our community,ÌýandÌýhonour and support those who have come out,Ìýthose who will come out today,Ìýand those who cannot or choose not to.ÌýÌý

Today isÌýan excellent opportunity for all #UÀ¶Ý®ÊÓÆµÌýcommunity members to consider the ways each of us can make our learning and working spaces safe(r),ÌýmoreÌýwelcoming, and more inclusive to members of 2SLGBTQ+ communities.ÌýÌý